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Save Our Selves
Part of the World Wide SOS Family


Over View

What is SOS

Organization from Europe

Sobriety Priority

James Christopher

Your Sobriety Toolkit

Europe Tool box

First 30  Days

Europe First
30 Days

SOS Dallas Guide to Starting a Meeting

SOS Behind Bars Guide  to  Starting a Meeting

Europe How to Start a Meeting

SOS Dallas Opening  Meeting

Relapse  Prevention

An SOS Approach to eating Disorders

Guide Book for Group Leaders

Behind Bars Posts

Family & Friends

SOS Conference 2000

SOS -AA From SOS Europe

SOS-AA as One Member Sees it

Discussion__ on 12 Steps

Why 12 Steps Work for Some People

Could Your Group be a Cult?

Chartered or Shackled

Scientific & Medical Articles

Limbic Lizard


Cyber Chips

SOS Links

SOS Links Print Out

Other Links


Real Time Chat


The Big Book Secular Sobriety and 12 Step Programs

An Alternative Path to Freedom from Drugs and Alcohol.

SOS is an alternative recovery method for those alcoholics or drug addicts who are uncomfortable with the spiritual content of widely available 12-Step programs. SOS takes the approach that sobriety is a separate issue from religion or spirituality. SOS credits the individual for achieving and maintaining his or her own sobriety, without reliance on any "Higher Power "

SOS supports healthy skepticism and encourages the use of the scientific method to understand alcoholism. SOS is not a spin-off of any religious group. There is no hidden agenda, as SOS is concerned with sobriety, not religiosity. SOS seeks only to promote sobriety amongst those who suffer from alcoholism or other drug addictions.

SOS is not against 12 Step Programs. SOS respects recovery in any form regardless of the path by which it is achieved. It is not in competition with any other recovery programs but exists as an alternative for those who find themselves uncomfortable with 12 Step approaches. As a group, SOS has no opinion on outside matters and does not wish to become entangled in outside controversy.

Although sobriety is an individual responsibility, life does not have to be faced alone. The support of other alcoholics and addicts is a vital adjunct to recovery. In SOS, members share experiences, insights, information, strength, and encouragement in friendly, honest, anonymous, and supportive group meetings.

Of course SOS is not an easy choice - you have to be prepared to take responsibility for your actions. But isn't that just what the bible tells us? God gave us free will, the ability to know right from wrong, and the choice of which path to follow.

I recently received an email from Jeff L, a 12 Stepper, who had read some information about SOS. It was short and to the point:

Subject: SOS, are you serious???
Date sent: Mon, 24 Jan 2000 23:37:20 -0500

I don't understand how anyone can save themselves without a higher power. Most people are their own worst enemies. Please tell me how anyone can actually save themselves? Doesn't this type of thinking promote being in CONTROL , when in fact we were totally out of control? How can anyone save themselves when they can't even stop drinking on their own?

Please help me better understand this type of belief system. I am always open to new ideas.

- Peace and Love,


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Duaine Metevia

Save Our Selves (SOS)
4773 Hollywood Blvd
Hollywood, CA 90027
Phone# 323-666-4295

Find a Meeting
If you want to become a part of SOS let James Christopher know you're out there.  If there is no meeting listed in your area, it could mean that there are people in your area who are waiting for more people to come forward and start a meeting.  The way meetings start are people contacting the clearing house and leaving their contact info.  Some cities only have phone contacts, people who will talk to you or meet with you for coffee so please leave your contact info; don't miss out.

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